Thursday, September 9th, 2010

I’m dating again……Help!

I’m dating again……Help!

So you are back in the dating game, a game you thought you wouldn’t have to participate in again and certainly not at the ripe old age of 35 or 40. It may seem daunting and yes indeed, times have changed, there is no need to go to the bar or club 5 nights a week and hope the woman/man of your dreams cosies up to you and it’s a happy ever after ending.

Online dating is here in a big way and there are many great reasons to date this way especially if you are dealing with dating insecurities and who isn’t?

With online dating you can effectively “date” more than one person at a time. You need a computer and a glass of wine, no need to get dolled up just yet, that will come along when you are ready to use Skype of the websites face to face feature that many include; for now you will need a good clear picture of yourself and make sure it’s a recent one. Uploading a picture when you were eight years younger and ate less food just makes people angry when they don’t get to meet the person they saw in the picture. Follow these easy steps and you will be dating in no time.

Step one.  Take a good Picture or get a friend to snap you in a great light.

Step two. Write a killer profile and decide on a unique user name to pique their interest.

Step Three. Stay positive at all times.

Dating online is not all about getting 50 emails in your inbox each time you log on, its about getting quality replies from people you could really get to know. Don’t wait for members to email you, if you like the look of them and have an interest in getting to know more, send them a flirt or a short email introducing yourself. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain.

This kind of dating eases you back into the dating game and takes away your dating insecurities because you control the pace at which you date, if someone comes across as pushy or rude, hit the block button and its goodbye forever!

When you feel comfortable with the person you have been corresponding with and decide to meet them you will probably know a lot more about them and their interests than if you had met in a local bar.  Hopefully it works out well but if it doesn’t you may have just increased your circle of friends.

Have fun and stay safe and if you have any dating issues or dating insecurities that you would like me to address please email me and I will do my best to find the answer.  Don’t just say I Love Your accent, be a part of it.

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