Monday, August 30th, 2010

Finding the ONE!

Finding the ONE!

Kelly Preston saw a picture of John Travolta and KNEW she was going to marry him, so how do you know you have found the ONE? Read the replies from experts and regular people and please add your own tips as we love to read them; let us know if you agree with what others say about finding that special ONE. Do you go weak at the knees and butterflies in your tummy or is that just nonsense?

Let us know.

Thank you

Rochelle

You know a man is the one when you begin to, without thinking about it, turn down offers from other men. You know he’s the one when you feel slightly dizzy when your face is touching his. He’s definitely the one when you can’t stop thinking about him. And he’s DEFINITELY the one when he pays for everything when you’re together:) Tee hee.

Spoken by a widow of 5 years. Robin

In answer to you question. Our relationship has went very fast by some
peoples standards but it has worked for us. Our relationship started in 
June 2010 by me helping a woman in the same profession on a licensing
issue in another state by email on a Linkedin sub group. Things have 
continued by email and phone. We will meet in person in October 2010
and will most likely be engaged by the end of the year with a marriage
in 2011. She is in Denver, Colorado and I am in Portland, Oregon. She 
knew before I did in that she is highly intuitive. We have found over many 
long conversations in that we have many, many things in common and we
are on the same page on how we feel about many things. I am older
and she is younger. She very much values my intelligent and my experience.
She is exteremly intelligent in her own right. Mike

I have been married for 20 years, and I knew my husband was the one on the very first date. We dated for two months and were engaged for 4 months and married. Knowing each other a long time was not the deciding factor. The day I met him I felt utterly at ease as if I was sitting across from an old friend. Its that sense of comfort and acceptance — and absolutely no fear of not being love but just feeling completely and utterly accepted for who you are. I think you know youre with the one when you feel comfortable, accepted and loved unconditionally.  Alexandra

I am a relationship expert based out in San Francisco. 

In terms of soul mate, some of my clients feel as though if they do not feel the first spark at the very first date, they dismiss that person as a potential.  In order to determine whether they match, it is important to continue on the first date getting to know one another.  After a few weeks, of spending time together and truly getting to know someone on the friendship level, they can determine if they are a soulmate.  The problem is that people get involved physically too soon to the point that they confuse love with infatuation.

One of my clients, after a few weeks of dating this person, eventually fell for that person and are now happily married.  I truly believe that is the secret especially when it comes to online dating.  Rather than having to make that decision on the first date, keep it as friends and see where it develops. 

Here are a few things to determine whether they are “the one”:

1.  You can confide in them the same as you would confide in your best friend.

2.  You miss spending time with them.

3.  You love them unconditionally.

4.  You find their little quirks to be so sweet.

5.  You would do anything for them (within reason) if they needed help.

 Janine

I had my first suspicions that my husband was special the moment he took my hand to bring me onto the dance floor.  We met at a club. There was a spark when our hands first touched.    This spark then turned into “magic”  when he kissed me goodbye that night while I was waiting for my car.  I still remember that “soulmate” feeling.   The next night we met for our first date.  Many hours later, the very first time I laid in his arms, I knew my husband was my soulmate . 
This October 11th we will be together 25 years … married 23 … and the magic … that soulmate feeling when we kiss … still continues.   Martyne

My name is Stephanie  and I am a relationship and self-help advice expert.  I  would like to share the seven characteristics that let you know when you have met your soul mate.  I also share how to transform your soul mate connection into a lasting relationship. 

From “Soul Mate FAQ”: How do I know if I met my soul mate?  

There are seven common soul mate characteristics:

1.THERE IS AN INSTANT CONNECTION: letting you know that the soul contract has been activated and that this person is going to be a significant person in your life.

2.THERE IS A PALPABLE CHEMISTRY: your fell an energetic pull towards this person, you want to touch them and be close to them.  Your energies harmonize beautifully, and there is a rightness that can be felt when you stand together

3. THEY FEEL FAMILIAR TO YOU: there is an immediate level of comfort and a profound sense that you understand and really get the person.  Many people say, “I feel like I have known them forever”.  Spiritually speaking, this is true!

4.THERE IS AN INTENSITY BETWEEN YOU: there is also a level of excitement that can be encompassing 

5. YOU FEEL HIGH:  this person’s presence amplifies your energy field, creating lots of expansion and feelings of passion and power.

6. YOU MAY EVEN LOOK SIMILAR:  Yes, sometimes we look like our soul mates (same coloring, same bone structure, same features)

7.YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH TIME CHANGES:  You are trying to process what the liner brain cannot comprehend—that you have found the eternal piece of yourself that can be mirrored back to you perfectly by another person

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